Problems, deal, life, coaching, situations, persons, reaction, opportunity, choices, suffering, setbacks, difficulty, moments of crisis, curse, difficult times, dilemma, conflict, annoyance, inconvenience, bad moment, distress, anguish, doubt, failure, changes, Paul Watzlawick, attitude, interpret, reality, creed, religion, limits, Cliff Young, control, perception, language, influence
Faced with the same event, several people can react in totally different ways. Better still, the same person, at different times, can react in a completely different way when faced with the same situations. All of this allows us to affirm that it is perhaps not reality itself that causes the problem, but the way we perceive it...
[...] All of this allows us to affirm that it is perhaps not reality itself that causes the problem, but the way we perceive it. If the problem is in the attitude, change the attitude? Fortunately, not all of us have problems like this family. But what we surely have are reasons to complain and it is the same attitude that allows both. How to reach your goals - even if you have problems overcome extreme obstacles such as those encountered daily. [...]
[...] Would you like to receive help to discover the word MER? You will find the solution at the end of this chapter. The difficulty comes from the fact that you have been conditioned to read letters printed in black on white and not to look for the meaning of the white spaces between the letters. The word "MER" is formed by these spaces in white. [...]
[...] Where can changes be made? During 15 years of educational activity, we have been able to verify that almost everyone considers that the only possible change is that which can modify the way things are. It keeps us waiting How to reach your goals - even if you have problems that reality is transformed; expecting the other person to become different; dream that the circumstances are different and that our subject of concern disappears, or that the economic situation improves. [...]
[...] We will then show you how to control it and use it consciously. All this will serve you to obtain what you choose voluntarily. Seeing a problem as an opportunity is not a magic trick, nor is it a question of denying that there can be painful or delicate in a situation. It's not just about looking good in the face of adversity and imagining that the problem is gone. The attitude with which you assume the external reality does not change this reality. [...]
[...] This means that what really affects your life is not reality itself but how you perceive it. When we call a situation "real", it is real to us because of its consequences. Henry Ford said on this subject: "You can believe something is possible or it isn't, you're right either way." It is so, because the way you interpret reality is your reality. Beliefs are the starting point of what we achieve in our lives. If someone believes that people are he will find everything other people do suspicious. [...]
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